Your right to be angry at those you aren’t ‘there for you’ when you’ve lost your mum or dad…and why it’s time to give it up.
And if you want to read the original blog, here it is – Why not everyone will be there for you when you’re grieiving OR “now I know who my REAL friends are”.
As always I’d love to hear from you below if you have something to share.
Kristie
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I just watched your blog on being angry. I wasn’t angry when my husband died and my church family wasn’t there for me. I was terribly hurt and realized that they didn’t see me as a friend or as a sister in Christ – they loved my husband – those feelings just weren’t extended to me. It left me feeling like a shy school girl who had thought she was in relationship with a boy – only to find out it was a fantasy. So …. I left the church …. and have tried to join another – but I feel like I am making the same mistakes again and will have the same results. I am a very focused individual who can accomplish a lot – so I am a good person to work with — but I think people see the talents and the potential – but don’t see me. Not sure what to do about that yet — but I pray a lot for healing. The whole thing has left me feeling a little worthless or not good enough. Normal reactions for the girl who likes the guy who doesn’t really like her back as much – and unfortunately the timing was very bad – not a good time you to find that out the truth about your life and relationships. The good thing – I have found a more intimate and deeper relationship with God — who never has deserted me.
Anyway, I think your blog is good and appreciate your perspectives. Very realistic and healthy.
Hi KRISTIE WEST I WATCHED YOUR VIDEO BLOG ON A RIGHT TO BE ANGRY WHEN YOU LOSE YOU MUM OR DAD OR ANYONE AND IT WAS REALLY GOOD.
THANKS.
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